As we are living longer and staying healthier into our 70’s, 80’s and 90’s, the question arises about the merits of marrying later in life, or re-marrying in our senior years. As reported in Time magazine, older adults are pairing up in unprecedented numbers, and in ways that are not traditional. Here are some benefits:
- financial situation may be improved when combining two incomes
- greater tolerance, wisdom, and problem solving are in the picture of adults, as compared to younger adults, all keys to successful, long-term relationships
- living longer may be a benefit for those in relationships when compared to older adults who are solo agers
- tax benefits come in many forms
However, there are risks and potential downsides to marrying later in life:
- challenges with living adult children and financial arrangements that complicate estate planning
- incurring medical expenses for one’s spouse
- assuming parental and financial responsibility for the other spouse’s children
Weighing these pros and cons in advance reveals the maturity and problem-solving ability of the couple. And it makes for a more successful marriage.
This article is referenced in the Living to 100 Club’s new publication, Better, Longer, and Happier: A Guide to Aging with Purpose and Positivity